Easeful Wealth Blocks: 6 Hidden Patterns Blocking Overflow

I went from £12k to £103k in one year in my heart-centered business when I first went full-time. But the reaction may not be what you’d expect…

I cried.

Because deep down, I realised that if I tried to do that again, it could literally kill me.

Social media told me that hitting 6 figures would bring freedom, peace, and success. But what I discovered was that I was still the same high-functioning, anxious person shaped by childhood trauma — and no amount of money was going to change that.

Looking back, those tears were the moment I realised I wasn’t just hitting an income ceiling — I was bumping against what I now call easeful wealth blocks.

My Wake-Up Call: The Cost of Chasing 6 Figures

I’ve always been ambitious, big-hearted, and mission-driven. I had visions of speaking on stages, publishing books, and enrolling thousands into my courses — all while working with clients one day a week and having plenty of time for joy, family, and creativity.

But that December 31st, when I broke down in tears, I knew something had to change. On the outside, I was “successful.” On the inside, I was exhausted, overspent, and constantly anxious.

I was sold out with 1:1 clients but had no breathing room. Even when I wasn’t working, I was thinking about work. I told myself that 6 figures would fix everything, but in truth, it only magnified the patterns I hadn’t healed.

This was not the vision I had for my life or my business.

What Are Easeful Wealth Blocks?

Easeful wealth blocks are the unconscious patterns — often rooted in trauma — that make receiving and holding wealth feel unsafe.

They show up when you’re trying to grow your business without the hustle, but instead of moving with ease and expansion, you fall back into survival, overgiving, and self-sabotage.

I didn’t realise it at the time, but my struggle to scale was not a strategy problem. It wasn’t that I needed more ads, a better copywriter, or another marketing coach.

What I really needed was to face and release the easeful wealth blocks buried deep in my nervous system. Ancestral programmes and my younger self's survival strategy to survive a difficult environment rather than thrive. For example chase love, perform was normal to my body and my nervous system. Just selling one programme to 1000s of people with ease felt alien to my body and my nervous system.

This goes beyond money mindset work. Changing beliefs. This is the belief of what that body thinks is safe / unsafe. The nervous system will pick the familiar hell over the unfamiliar heaven. Easeful wealth is unfamiliar which is why it becomes a wealth block.

Truth about Scaling with Trauma

Like so many heart-centered women, I wanted to grow my programmes so I could help more people, create more spaciousness, and prepare my body for motherhood.

So I did what the experts said: I invested in mentors, a copywriter, and even poured £12k into one launch. Over 1,000 people signed up for my free training… but only six converted. The exact same number I had gotten before.

I was devastated. Covered in stress rashes, burnt out, and financially stretched, I realised that trying to “do more” while ignoring my inner world was destroying me.

That launch didn’t fail because I wasn’t good enough. It failed because I hadn’t yet healed the easeful wealth blocks that were keeping me in survival mode. My past trauma patterns of how relationships didn't always feel easy and unconditional required my attention to break out of the wealth block!

6 Easeful Wealth Blocks That Hold Back Heart-Led Women

Here are the six key blocks I had to work through on my journey from survival to overflow:

1. Feeling Unsafe Being Your Authentic Self

Do you feel safe being fully you — without performing, overgiving, or hustling? If not, your nervous system will resist easeful wealth.

For me, growing up with complex trauma and an unsafe relationship with my dad meant I never truly felt provided for or secure. I chased money and relationships to feel safe, but safety had to come from within. Always looking for the outside validation that I was enough.

Healing meant creating routines that reassured my inner child, body, and spirit that it was safe to be me. Regardless of whether the world chose me. I learnt to help my body to feel safe regardless of the sale. To love myself unconditionally regardless of external results. As my own self abuse and self betrayal with a mean inner critic was often the main course of my unsafety.

2. Resisting Ease and Pleasure

   
   

   If ease feels unsafe — if joy, rest, and play trigger discomfort — then you’ll unconsciously create struggle.

   
   

   As a child of immigrants, I was taught that study and hard work were valued, not play. So when my business needed ease, my nervous system panicked. I had to actively schedule joy, simplify my offers, and remove anything that didn’t feel easeful.

It would feel so uncomfortable to make choices like have less calls or schedule in a painting session with my inner child! Or to choose to have a dance in my kitchen instead of trying to control outcomes. But I would do multiple somatic practices a day like shaking, breathing, vagus nerve exercises to show my body we were safe doing this. I wasn't going to get into trouble with my dad. But as time went on I focused on all the moment where I was practicing ease and pleasure and I would make money. For example when I had a great nights sleep!

3. Fear of being seen as true self

Many of us wear masks — watering down our authenticity to be palatable. But easeful wealth requires being fully seen. Because what is easy is being you not pretending to be someone else. That is what burns people out. The masks! The rule following that is not in alignment.

For years, I hid parts of myself out of fear of being judged by family or friends. When I started showing up as my whole self, just like when I met my soulmate by being fully me, soul-aligned clients found me. This was easeful wealth. Showing up as you and getting paid for it.

Again it was a process of supporting my nervous system and my inner child to feel safe to be myself. I had many protective parts that learnt young that this version was not enough to receive love. But I began to see how when I showed my true self how the aligned people came found me. The ones who truly valued and saw me. They didn't prefer the masks or the role I performed of helper , fixer , shrinker.

I also stopped shrinking myself so I wouldn't trigger others. This was a survival strategy I had my whole life which kept be small. I was afraid I would be bullied for being too much online. But I learnt to help my body and my younger self to feel safe even if other people got upset with me. Shrinking yourself is the ultimate easeful wealth block!

4. Following instead of Leading

Scaling isn’t about copying strategies — it’s about becoming a leader.

I kept outsourcing my power to coaches and mentors instead of trusting my own soul guidance. When I finally tuned inwards, I birthed ideas that created 5-figure days with ease.

For the longest time I was searching for outside of myself for the fix that would scale my business when the answers were already in the present moment. When I would take care of my needs, nourish myself, nervous system felt safe, my inner child felt held and I believed in myself my frequency would increase.

Then the ideas would drop in out of no where . Like a blog which made me multi 5 figures. Or a course idea that I would fill in a day no marketing. This would make easeful wealth much faster than following someone else's cookie cutter strategy that wasn't aligned and would burn me out.

5. Creating from Survival not Expansion

When you operate from “not enough,” you’ll always create just enough. Because that is the energy your pouring into your creations. Even when I made 6 figures, I spent faster than money came in because I was still stuck in survival mode. The shift happened when I learned to create from a frequency of love, peace, and joy — not fear. Then I felt truly nourished by money. I was able to feel peace, love and joy when I looked at the money because I felt it before it even came along. When you want results that do not make sense and are EASEFUL wealth that has to come from a different energy so you don't have to hustle in order to sustain it. This is about changing your frequency from survival to expansion. This is deeper shadow worker.

When I work with clients on this I always ask clients to share how their higher income feels in their future vision e.g. peaceful, pleasure, joy and love. Then I will ask for them to track in a day what takes them out of this feeling. That will give you a list on the shadows to work on.

6. Forgetting that Presence is Power

The fastest way to release easeful wealth blocks is to notice your current thoughts, feelings, and actions — and choose differently.

Presence allows you to meet your inner child with compassion, close old loops, and embody the future version of yourself who already lives in overflow.

Body - Tune into your nervous system. We always start here. Check in if your feeling fear, anxiety , shame, anger and use a somatic tool to help your body to feel safe like shaking or punching when anger is high. Often this can shift energy immediately

Heart - If you are still feeling off feelings this is the time to check in with your emotions what do they need? This is how I get clients to begin to create a connection with inner child and other younger versions.

Mind - The last stage is to check in on the quality of those thoughts

Healing Easeful Wealth Blocks to Step Into Overflow

The programme that failed to scale wasn’t meant to — because it wasn’t fully aligned with my authentic self.

Out of that experience, I birthed OVERFLOW a programme rooted in the becoming process — healing your inner blocks so you can create wealth with ease.

Your next level of wealth is not about doing more. It’s about releasing the easeful wealth blocks that keep you stuck in survival, and embodying the version of you who creates overflow with authenticity, alignment, and joy.

✨ If you’re ready to go deeper, I have two free resources to help you:

• Wealth Activation Guide — to align with your highest timeline.

• Emotional Mastery Guide — with 20 EFT tapping scripts to raise your vibration.

And if you feel called, BOOK 121 with me to begin your journey of creating easeful wealth.

Frequently Asked Questions About Easeful Wealth Blocks

1. What are easeful wealth blocks? Easeful wealth blocks are the unconscious patterns, traumas, and beliefs that stop you from creating money with flow, joy, and alignment. Instead of money feeling “easeful,” these blocks keep you stuck in hustle, survival mode, or self-sabotage.

2. How do I know if I have wealth blocks? If you’re doing “all the right strategies” but keep hitting the same income ceilings, or if money comes in but never feels enough, you’re likely experiencing wealth blocks. Signs also include overworking, fear of being seen, or finding it unsafe to rest and receive. Your identity is still in survival rather than embodying abundance.

3. Can I clear wealth blocks on my own? Yes, you can start by becoming aware of them, regulating your nervous system, and shifting your beliefs around safety, ease, and self-worth. Practices like EFT tapping, journaling, inner child work, parts work, and meditation help. Many people also find de#eper transformation with coaching, group programs, or somatic healing to go deeper into releasing the shadow. As we can only let go of what we are aware of.

4. How long does it take to clear wealth blocks? It’s different for everyone. Some blocks shift quickly once you become aware of them, while deeper patterns from childhood or trauma may take longer to heal like peeling layers. Think of it as an ongoing process of embodiment, rather than a one-time fix.

5. What resources can help me on this journey? Alongside my free Wealth Activation Guide , my courses or book 121. I recommend Amanda Frances’ book Rich As F*ck for a powerful perspective on money mindset and wealth creation.